I have been celibate for months now my choice and don't miss it at all. I want to understand myself alone, before adding anybody else into the mix. I am not a virgin, I have had sex before, and while it was very meaningful with the man I loved and I enjoyed it somewhat, I have never felt like it was this amazing thing that some people make it out to be. No thanks.
I wants horny people
When I decide to give up my true sense of freedom as an individual, it will ib for someone very, very special. In general, I do not let guys get very close at all. It is a totally reasonable option and choice. I also get the occasional woman that I'm interested in, who doesn't show the same interest in me. But this is the 21st century, darling.
While I have several groups of friends, datinf pretty hard for me to let anyone get TOO close, even women. It is a totally reasonable. This can be both hilarious and exhausting, especially when they make their opinions known: "Don't You Get Lonely? We order people like we order pizza. If you are someone who likes to be on your own, then that is your decision to make.
I consider it efficient. It isn't that they can't find someone to date, it is that they aren't interested in dating. If you already have both, or know you can without a mate, then more power to you!
Not interested in dating? why it’s normal to feel this way
I don't ever see myself dating online or using a dating app, not that there's anything bad about doing that. If you are more interested in a promotion at work than dating, that is totally cool.
(Not intrested sweet.) And yet, that's dating. You might find the rewards that you receive from your work accomplishments provide you with enough satisfaction in life. But how? Quite frankly, I could live without it the rest of my life and not really care. I'm a proactive person; if there was some major hole in my life, I would fill it.
Why i’m not interested in a relationship in my twenties
To add a man into that equation as anything but a nurturing, positive friend would alter the chemistry of my brain. I don't get too broken up. Everything doesn't have to happen for me in the next five years, or even the next fifteen. It would cloud it. It's not like a "thing"; I'm not out on some crusade to be single. Also, I use affiliate links when recommending books or products.
Post about it in the comments below. I don't really date.
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Loners are people who like to be on their own. I feel that I am happier just doing my own thing. Okay, sure. Instead of choosing not to be interested in dating, maybe just choose better and take it slower next time. And on to the next one.
Some people are just not into dating and that's ok
But I am also confident in my ability to love and be loved, and I don't feel the need to prove it by rushing into a relationship I'm not sure about. I see no datkng in entering into a relationship unless I feel it will last long-term, which means that I will no longer, ever again, be able to enjoy my time alone as an individual and not part of some pair.
Maybe because I have friends that are so awesome that I've never felt like a third wheel, but also because I don't mind taking my time. I want to be in interezted relationship because you have taken the time to know yourself, and because you love yourself, you know how to effectively love me.
Walking the line.
There are just some people who would rather be on nit own. I have worked hard for the things I've wanted to make of myself, and being able to make snap decisions that I knew wouldn't drastically affect another person has been crucial to every little success. I dting her even more for having the maturity to be direct, and am grateful to be able to move on without any question.
Yeah, I can wait a few years for that. If you never try to love, then you lose from the beginning. It just happens that I'm not dating, and I'm not especially going.
Let’s be real.
I enjoyed getting to know you a little better—thank you for agreeing to go out! You can use it, free of charge. You asking that question implies that you think I would just let myself exist in a miserable state, which makes it offensive on a lot of levels. Thank you for your support.